There I was sitting at the park when this 8 year old walks past me. Out of the corner of my eye I catch her looking at me, she turns and starts towards me. I am sitting on a bench facing the play ground, keeping my eye on these two little boys that I sometimes babysit. "Ug please keep going" I think to myself. I am not sure why but my initial reaction to being approached, no matter who it is, is ALWAYS "I hate this." I am racking my brain trying to remember a time, being acce